Friday, 11 July 2008
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Lost?
So the short version of my sop story,
I liked this guy lets name him S, So S and i had a thing going on and then school band trip came and we spent a lot of time together.
We held hands, cuddled, etc. and we both knew full well that we liked each other and then all of a sudden i was told by someone that there was no chance of us going out. So i confronted S and he said he was going to be really busy this summer and didn't want to blow me off all the time. So this was all kinda like a slap in the face for me.
So back at school things were kinda akward between us and then it got better i showed up to his rugby games. and we chatted and then things got a little flirty between us again. my hopes got up again. and then ..... summer vacation...haven't seen nor spoken to him since school ended.
So to the point of the subject of this entry.
I feel completely lost without seeing him everyday. he's on my mind..a lot more than i think he should be right now. and i have no way of communicating with him...no phone # , email, facebook, NOTHING. (he has dial-up.)
So i've tried the whole get over him and move on. Attempted that...the guy i was flirty with...he's gone for the summer...7 weeks. And then i meet up with one of his friends at a bonfire...and she said that all S ever did was talk about me and that he really liked me.
And now i'm just fed up with my feelings....normal?
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Comments (5)
dial up= no internet= bad life... so sad poor guy.
Serious note: yes, this is normal. ALl emotions are normal, not always good, but always normal.
I'm not sure exactly what to tell you... Ask a friend of his for his number? i'm not sure if that'd be considered creepy or not............. depends on the guy really...
And thanks for your comment! (1st one, NICE!) Ya, we're not sure, my friend and I. My friends think we're the perfect couple, cracks me up, but i agree with you, he has a tendancy to be out of the country during the summer break. I said i'd call him again in August because that's when school starts and he SHOULD be back then. I'll keep you updated ^_~
Thanks again for your advice,i hope mine helps.. ^.^
~Anya
I'd say try to get in contact with him again. If it's been awhile, there may be a chance that he's already moved on, but from what I heard I think that you've got a good chance.
You don't want to NOT do anything and then regret in the future, that's the worst feeling in the world.
@jadedbeauty - I agree with what your saying....but the trouble is...i have no contact with him... he doesnt do computers and i dont have his number :( and i'm scared come fall when school starts up again i'm going to still like him, but hes going to have moved on.
Believe me when I say this - I know exactly what you're going through.
Younger guys (meaning the ones that aren't exactly ready to settle down) have this tendency to not know what they want, and this guy is going through that, down to the t.
I agree with jadedbeauty to a point - you don't want to regret anything. If you really truly believe that he still has feelings for you, and you're okay with getting your heart trampled on a little bit in exchange for finding this out, then go for it (what's a little hurt in the world as long as you find love? :D ), once school comes around again and you see him again.
Granted, you might want to step back a bit and make sure (from a distance) that this is all okay (as jb said, chance that he's moved on), but if he hasn't, and there's still that little feeling there from both of you... go for it, girl.
wow...you guys are all making sense to me! thanks a lot.
and singnelise. i think your right. when school starts i'll keep some distance and see what happens, cuz i'm not sure if he even still likes me any more. and this could be just a silly little crush....again. lol
thanks again :)